Going around, what matter the most seems to be $. I don't deny the fact that I love $ and I'm quite a spender. But I honestly don't feel comfortable people telling me how to spend my own $. With the least expense I'm trying to limit, I'm told to stop spending on waste. Obviously, my taste ain't Anybody Else's. What I spend on might not be what everyone else would spend on. Somehow I need a little understanding that every once in a while I need to make a mistake. And maybe I would love to spend on waste.