Thursday, August 25, 2005

Better to talk

I had been so down for the last few days and now I am still not well but a bit better after I had talked over the problem I got. I had never thought I would tell anyone how much do I suffer and never let anyone sees my weakness. However, last night, I did show it out. Not on purpose though. I know crying is not the solution but it does help when we don't know what to say or what to tell. Sharing was what I considered to be sth useless and shame to say but it had turned out to be a very useful way to consolve ourself. It does help me, though not much but at least not to cry again. I don't know what had changed me to be who I am now... So hard to say but it's like that...

2005-08-25-Thursday
11:16am

5 comments:

Wanna said...

Since I'm clueless to what problem you're encoutering, please let me talk in general way.
As born not to bear with difficulties, bitterness has come to us always. But please bear in mind that the Nature has equipped us with all kinds of thing to be used as partners, helping fight against those negativeness.

Well, what are my partners, anyways? Of course, one of them is my reliable friends. Sharing with them my problems, I always feel relax after that - almost their idea or comfort makes me feel ful of happiness, then a solution would be discovered.

Once in a while, I chose crying as a solution, too. But in majority, I hang out alone or with my friends, or go drink beer - then fall asleep, waiting for better tomorrow :-(

dara said...

What's about writing what is in your mind into a book?
Then you will feel better coz it is the same as you told someone.
If it is the top secret you can burn it down latter.
Just try to tell yourself that this is the way life goes on.Life is
full of sad and happy.If you like reading you can read some
philosophy or sociology or some books alike then you will find out that sadness is going
to happen to all people and how the social treat us bla bla...

AND TOMORROW WILL BE A GOOD DAY FOR YOU.

this what I did when I was broken heart.hope these can help

Sopha said...

Hi dearest!
I used to listen to Vietnamese song which said "Life without sorrow & bitterness is not called a life". It simply means that one who never experiences sadness has not yet understood the meaning of life. Dear! Pls keep in mind that there is not u alone who suffer from life; there r many others who r also facing different tragic obstacles in life.
I would highly recommend u share all ur sadness to so who, u think, can be a very helpful consultant...esp. one of ur best friends.
Ur friend always,
Sopha

Dee said...

I agree with Sopha's comment. Very true.

I will give you my advice, but I think my culture conflicts with your culture, rendering the advice useless.

I have learned only recently that my attitude shapes how I feel. I used to always have low self-esteem and feel really bad. I would always have a bad day and be more and more depressed.

It really depends on your situation. Most things are really not that big of a deal, and you shouldnt make it so. Some things are a big deal, but you have to not go overboard with your attitude and emotion to let them affect you.

Are you buddhist?

Kalyan said...

Dear, don't be pessimistic about the fact that you've changed. In fact, it's another milestone of your life that leads you through maturity and that provides you experiencing the taste of life.

No matter what will happen, just remember that you are not alone.